From Rowan Williams' book "Where God Happens:"
We love with God when and only when we are the conduit for God’s reconciling presence with the person next to us. It is as we connect the other with the source of life that we come to stand in the place of life, the place cleared and occupied for us by Christ.
Williams, Rowan. Where God Happens: Discovering Christ in One Another (p. 36). New Seeds. Kindle Edition.